Painful as it is to think about, not all of us are lucky enough to have either or both of our parents present on our wedding days, for any number of unfortunate reasons. That, however, doesn’t mean you have to do away with the beautiful tradition of sharing a dance with someone who has raised you, nurtured you, supported you, and will continue to do so as you begin this new family with your partner. Perhaps it’s a godparent, an aunt or uncle, grandparent, or even a sibling (or siblings!). We here at Around Town believe it’s important to celebrate the love you came from as you declare to the world this new love, even if your circumstances are unusual or non-traditional!
So, we’ve decided to compile a list of some of our favorite songs that work for various non-traditional “parent” dance scenarios! If there’s one thing our award-winning bands know, it’s how to celebrate love of all kinds with killer music.
Dancing with a Godparent
If you’re sharing this moment with a godparent, choose a song that honors their spiritual and emotional support. Here are some meaningful choices:
“Blessed” by Elton John – A beautiful song that expresses gratitude for the blessings they’ve brought into your life.
“I Hope You Dance” by Lee Ann Womack – An inspiring tune that conveys wishes for a joyful and fulfilling future.
“You Raise Me Up” by Josh Groban – A powerful ballad that acknowledges their role in lifting you to great heights.
Dancing with a Sibling
When dancing with a sibling, you might want to choose a song that reflects your shared childhood memories and the unique bond you have, recognizing that they’ll also always have a place at their table for you at Thanksgiving and vice versa. Here are some fun and heartfelt choices:
“You’ve Got a Friend” by James Taylor – This song perfectly captures the supportive and enduring nature of a sibling relationship.
“Count on Me” by Bruno Mars – A modern and upbeat choice that speaks to the reliability and love siblings have for each other.
“Save Me a Seat” by Alex Warren – A rollicking tune hitting home the message that you will always be welcome at each other’s tables.
Dancing with an Aunt or Uncle
For a dance with an aunt or uncle, select a song that celebrates the guidance and affection they’ve provided throughout your life. Consider these options:
“Wind Beneath My Wings” by Bette Midler – This song is a powerful tribute to someone who has always supported and uplifted you. This one is a little dramatic, but if that’s your vibe it’s a great choice!
“Stand by Me” by Ben E. King – A classic tune, this one really underscores the steadfast presence of a loving relative.
“Lean on Me” by Bill Withers – An iconic song that emphasizes the importance of being there for one another.
Dancing with a Grandparent
If you’re sharing this special dance with a grandparent, you want to choose a song that honors their wisdom, love, and perhaps a bit of nostalgia. Here are some timeless options they’ll know well:
“What a Wonderful World” by Louis Armstrong – This classic song is perfect for a tender moment that reflects on the beauty of life.
“The Way You Look Tonight” by Frank Sinatra – A sophisticated and heartwarming tune that will add a touch of elegance to the dance.
“Unforgettable” by Nat King Cole and Natalie Cole – This duet is a beautiful homage to the everlasting bond you share.
Dancing with a Family Friend or Mentor
When the dance is with a family friend or mentor who has played a significant role in your life, select a song that reflects the special bond you share. Here are some great options:
“Thank You for Being a Friend” by Andrew Gold – Cheerful and heartfelt, this song shows appreciation for their friendship and support.
“Times Like These (Acoustic Version)” by Foo Fighters – A modern and reflective choice that speaks to the guidance and wisdom they’ve offered.
“Hero” by Mariah Carey – This powerful anthem that acknowledges the strength and inspiration they’ve provided.
Regardless of who you choose to dance with, the most important aspect of this moment is the connection and love you share. Most importantly, choose a song that has significant meaning to both of you! Maybe it’s a song you both love, a tune that reminds you of a special memory, or lyrics that perfectly capture your relationship. Our best advice? Sit down together and talk about what songs are meaningful to you both and why – odds are there’s an obvious pick.
Incorporating non-traditional family dances into your wedding can be a wonderful way to honor and celebrate the people who have shaped your life. Whether it’s a grandparent, sibling, aunt, uncle, godparent, or mentor, choosing a meaningful song and sharing a special dance will create lasting memories for both you and your loved ones. So go ahead, pick that perfect tune, and let the love and music flow on your special day!
